headed out for some much needed QT with the hubby. if there is one thing i've learned during our struggle, it is that you must set aside time regularly to connect with your spouse. if you havent cleared your calendar (even for just a few hours) to spend time with your SO, do it now. make it count. even if you cant afford it, do something together just the two of you. if you're growing apart, a sure-fire way to finish off the relationship is to not spend time together.